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Thoughts of being single for 23 years; Questions and Acceptance

"If a guy stays virgin till he is 30 years old, he becomes a Wizard.    If a guy stays virgin till he is 40 years old, he becomes a Star."     - a famous phrase, South Korea. My important friend Furlyn, made this for me, hoping I don't turn into a real Wizard. Let me start off by declaring that whatever I write here is strictly my own piece of mind, but I believe (and hope) most single guys out there will be able to relate. I'm pretty sure that in far away(?) future when I read this blog post again, I'll regret for even writing it just like all my past posts. But that is the point of writing diaries. Just to say shortly about myself, I've been single since birth (a.k.a 모태솔로 /  母胎  mǔtāi solo / motae solo, which directly means from Chinese to Korean; Solo since Mother's Womb) ,  which is "by right" a rare thing. In this day and age, how often do see someone over 21 years old who has been single throughout their lives? -seems like the